Love Is Blind and Is Not Always True
Love Relationships
They departed like every other day, and nobody noticed them leaving their home. The family often came to visit and left without anyone knowing of their departure.
It is their life, and when she does not see her friend as part of this family, she is not happy. Lots to enjoy with such breathtaking views, and not to forget the fresh air.
She yearns each day to see him and talk to him, but he is not around anymore. The woman does not know why he is not coming by to pay his regular visits.
This makes her feel lonely without his conversations or the simple ''hello,'' that always made her smile, and feel cheerful.
Finally, she has found the type of person with whom she can count on through all times, and now just misses his brief conversations.
The simple person who accepts her for who she really is sometimes can be self-centred, but then who is not?
One look into his bluish-grey eyes and she could not resist those feelings that had come over her. She wished for something that could never be but hopefully will be.
The married woman knows deep down that this is not possible. It is not about what he possesses. They both come from different worlds but have one thing in common loneliness.
He cares about her, and often he shows that and is direct in his conversations. The problem is this guy wants to be with her and knows that it is not possible.
Ever watched the movie Love in the Time of Cholera?
I have watched this movie three times and would not mind watching it once or twice more. In their youth, Florentino Ariza and Fermina Daza fell passionately in love. When Fermina eventually chooses to marry a wealthy, well-born doctor, Florentino feels lost, but he is a romantic.
As he improves in his business career, he goes on with his years in having six hundred and twenty-two affairs. At that time, he had those affairs, he reserved his heart for Fermina.
It took fifty years, nine months, and four days after he had first declared his love for Fermina, and now he had to do it again. His eyes say everything about the way he feels about her and is held back from expressing his feelings.
It is difficult to think of going down that road knowing she is not free to express her feelings for him.
She could pray for him to be there for her but in the friendliest of ways. Love is beautiful no matter who you have it with and love cannot be controlled.
Love happens and takes over a person's thoughts.
Sometimes one just must be patient for the next moment to appear and then experience their new adventures. During June, last summer it was fun to be together for him and her.
They shared many mornings, having coffee, talking, and laughing freely. He is not coming around as he did in the past.
He now realizes he cannot step over any boundaries and wants to pull back from her. What he does not realize is that he will not always be able to control the way he feels and at some point, he must come out and say something to her.
He respects her and knows a part of her life story which he will not discuss with anyone, and the best for both would be to stay good friends and not to act on their emotions. In this way, no one gets hurt.
They were invited to his place for supper, living next door, and off-course her husband was thereafter a few wines. Most people get braver and speak their minds. He did exactly that, got braver and spoke his mind out.
He spoke of how he is living a lonely life and gave an odd look at her while talking about his lonely life.
They managed to go on to other conversations.
When seen in public in the presence of other people it is so obvious how he feels about her. It is written all over his face.
The way he looks at her, and the constant making sure she has everything on her plate makes it clear in their minds.
He makes such a fuss over her at the dinner table to make sure she enjoys her evening at his place.
During the winter they spent a fair amount of time together, and he got closer to her with lots of smiles and a joke. There has never been anything more than laughs and jokes, just so different and so true.
He is like the angel she never had, standing over her. They have a complicated relationship; it is like they cannot stand being away from each other but with certain limits. Love is blind and he is certainly showing that in her.
When two people are restrained in a relationship, one is married and the other is single, what would you do in such a situation?
Get that thought out of your head!
It is never going to happen and being faithful to your man is the right thing to do. She knows what makes her feel good; he certainly does that for her, and he knows what makes him feel good.
She does that for him, but this does not make sense at least in some ways.
Sometimes feelings cannot be controlled and spending the lonely moments together can open feelings to show for two friendly people.
They both know it is better left alone because the intimate relationship or the fling they want cannot happen.
That will not happen, and it makes all the difference in their lives. They cannot go back to pretend nothing happened but can go forward and forget about their past.
In this way, the friendly couple does not have this cloud over their heads. Am waiting to burst out of the cloud when they know it will not burst now or ever.
Their feelings could subside and things could change.
People grow apart after getting to know more about each other; it happens all the time. Loving someone you cannot be with can make your life a misery. Remember, you cannot always call it love.
It can also be lust or one of your greatest fantasies, but how you handle the situation is entirely up to you.
Most people fail to see what is right in front of them and focus on what they cannot have. You learn from your own experiences and from what others tell you.
From what you see in others and from their actions. When you react to the feelings that can change a lot for you.
Sometimes it can be a good thing or just a failure. As far as you go in a relationship think about your feelings and how you can resolve them if needed.
Love can show you many parts of your life
Are you in love?
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This content is accurate and true to the best of the author’s knowledge and is not meant to substitute for formal and individualized advice from a qualified professional.
© 2013 Devika Primić